Are you able to quickly determine when someone's trying to manipulate you? What are the signs?
I have a sixth sense. Okay, not really, but any hint of insincerity makes me bristle. Also, anything that seems unlikely or ridiculous. I'm a businessman and entrepreneur with decades of experience; I don't know everything, but I know enough to question some of the absurd ideas people suggest. If the idea is absurd and the presenter insincere, you can almost bet they are trying to manipulate you. Same with investment opportunities or schemes … I know what normal expectations are, and if the opportunity reaches beyond normal, well, then, I'm being manipulated.
I don't respond well to manipulation. I always feel like the manipulator thinks they are smarter than me, and that angers me. Some professions — attorneys come to mind, but salespeople, fundraisers, politicians, and certain managers — purposely hone manipulative skills. I guess that's expected. Where I really bristle, though, is when friends, colleagues, and family members make the attempt. They should know I'm smarter than that!
Just tell me the truth. Explain what you want from me, and why. I'll gladly help if I can. Just drop the BS. I see right through it.